You guys know I’m divorced and that I split the custody of my three little cherubs with my ex. Because of weird Christmas schedules and such, the kids didn’t really get to spend very much time with me in December. One of my girls is doing a daily teary countdown, “Mom, we are only (sob) with you (sob) for three more days!” It breaks my heart. She is the same one that says things like, “Mom, it makes me so sad when I am gone, because I can’t remember what your face looks like!!” Because they are traveling for the holidays and gone for two weeks, I made them all little sleeping pillows. I used this UrbanThreads.com embroidery and put a picture on the back. They are only about 8” square.
I added little straps so they could easily hold on to them in the airport and when they are in bed.
I used that fabric that is mounted to paper (like this – mine was a different brand but same thing). You send it through the printer, peel of the paper backing and use it for regular fabric. The photo quality isn’t the best but the kids love them and my little girl had tears in her eyes when she thanked me. It’s so hard to be strong for your kids all the time. When my littlest on cries over missing me, I want to cry right back. It’s so hard sometimes.
13 comments:
Beautiful idea. I'm sure it will help your little girl during separations.
Wow, this is so poignant. I completely related as I was divorced when my girls were 4 and 6 and I experienced a similar phenomenon. These pillows are brilliant and will definitely help both kids through a difficult time. Kudos to you, mom. Your loving support will help them through it.
Very loving way of sharing with your little one's at this emotional time. Truly shows just how much you love, care and understand...
Fabulous idea and I absolutely love your pillows! The children will remember these things you made for them and NOT the tears. :)
Oh I am so there. My son and I sing that song to each other - it's a beautiful idea so beautifully executed. I think I will do the same thing as my son doesn't sleep well at his Dad's. Thanks for the link to that paper.
Nice pillows! When my kids were little we had split holidays, too. I understand the tears.
So, so precious! You're such a sweet mom!
ps, I nominated you for the Lovely Blogger/Inspirational Blog Award! Please see my post today.
Those of us who have been through the same experience can share your pain, Dawn. Hopefully your little pillows will give everyone some comfort..
Ooh, been there too, but that doesn't help. Terrific idea. Enjoy the time you have with your kids and hope things smooth out for your youngest. It's so hard when it's not fixable.
Brilliant and creative ! Such a wonderful way to show love.
These girls have the coolest mommy.
That's so sad about your youngest.... I do hope that these pillows bring some comfort to both you and the kids during those separation periods.
Also, just wanted to let you know that I also nominated you for a blog award--feel free to play along or not. :) http://sew-and-so.blogspot.com/2013/01/award-time.html
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